Dear Queenie,
I’m divorced, dating a man who is also divorced, and we are just perfect for each other, but he doesn’t want to get married because he said his previous marriage ended because there wasn’t any sex and he’s afraid that if we get married the physical part of our relationship will just stop.
Queenie, how can I convince him that won’t happen, or should I just give up on him?—Confused divorcee
Dear Divorcee,
If you can be happy with this man without getting married, stick with him. But if you insist on getting married this man is not for you and you will have to find someone else.