Dear Queenie,
My husband is everything I could ask for and I would be perfectly happy married to him if I didn’t know that he also has a byside. I have no intention of leaving him, but I would like to know why he does this.
Queenie, he says he loves me, so why does he also need someone else?—Confused wife
Dear Wife,
There could be any one or more of several reasons: He wants to prove to himself that he is attractive to other women than his wife, he simply cannot resist temptation, he does not get enough sexual satisfaction from you ... and the list goes on.
Have you tried asking him about this? Talking it over with him, and perhaps a professional marriage counsellor, might result in both of you being even happier married to each other.
