Dear Queenie,
My sister thinks getting married and having children are the most important things she has ever done while I have a very successful career and have decided to stay single and childless. She keeps telling me that I don’t know what I am missing, and she is insulted that I don’t want what she’s got.
Queenie, I would like to spend time with my sister without arguing about this, but how?—Estranged sister
Dear Sister,
Even identical twins often have different tastes and different goals in life.
Keep in mind that possibly your sister is a little bit envious of your lifestyle and your happiness with it. The two of you need to agree to disagree about your choices of lifestyle and try to talk about something else.
