Dear Queenie,
I was dating a wonderful girl for almost a year until suddenly she told me the way she felt about me had changed, so we stopped dating. However, she still calls me sometimes just to chat or asks me to drop by so she won’t be alone.
Queenie, I still feel the same way I always did about her and it’s very confusing.
Should I try to get her to start going with me again?—Ex-boyfriend
Dear Ex-boyfriend,
This girl is treating you like a good friend, not a boyfriend. If that is not enough for you, you will not get over her as long as you keep hoping she has changed her mind, so stop seeing or talking to her entirely and start looking for someone else to fill the role of girlfriend.
