Dear Queenie,
I used to take care of a woman who is disabled and not able to care for herself. During that time I got to know her husband very well.
I don’t work for them anymore, but recently I met her husband while we were shopping at the same store and he said how much he likes me and asked me to go out with him. He said he would never leave his wife because she needs him, but he also wants a kind of companionship she is not able to give him.
Queenie, I like him too. Would it be wrong for us to go out together?—Falling in love
Dear Falling,
Ordinarily I would not condone your getting involved with a married man, but this man is married to a woman who is unable to be a wife to him, so I have mixed feelings about your situation.
Perhaps you should consult a professional counsellor to help you work out your feelings about this matter and decide what you believe is right.