Dear Queenie,
I have a friend who always asks me what I think she should wear to an event and then tells me not to wear something she thinks is too much like what she is going to wear.
Queenie, I don’t mind giving advice, but I don’t like being told what I should or shouldn’t wear. What do you say?—Fed up
Dear Fed up,
By all means give your friend advice when she asks for it. However, feel free to simply ignore her instructions as to what you should or should not wear.