Dear Queenie,
I got married right after college so I haven’t got any recent dating experience, but now I’m divorced and I’ve started dating again. It seems like now the men expect to have sex with you after just a few dates.
Queenie, is this the way things are now, or am I just unlucky about the kind of men I meet?—Fed up, but lonely
Dear Fed up,
Not all men are like that. Just tell them you do not do things like that. The ones who only want sex will not call again, but some men may actually find you more attractive for not being promiscuous.
You might also give some thought to how you go about meeting new men in the first place.
