Dear Queenie,
My two sons-in-law just cannot get along with each other. Every time they are together it ends up in a big argument. They spoil every family occasion and their children don’t get to know each other.
Queenie, how can my wife and I fix things up?—Fed-up grandfather
Dear Grandfather,
If you try to “fix things up” you may spoil your relationship with both of them. Hold separate family occasions – either two Thanksgiving dinners and two Christmas parties, or invite one daughter’s family for Thanksgiving and the other daughter’s family for Christmas. And you can have all the cousins get together at your house with only or even without their mothers, perhaps while their fathers are at work.
