Dear Queenie,
My husband’s father is getting old and has a woman who comes in every day to take care of him and his house. My husband has got real friendly with this woman and they spend a lot of time talking and texting to each other every day. I think they are in love and have had sex together.
My marriage hasn’t been very good for a long time and this just makes things worse.
Queenie, should I give up and ask for a divorce?—Fed-up wife
Dear Wife,
Your husband’s relationship with his father’s caregiver may not last after his father no longer needs her – if his father goes to live in a care facility or when he dies.
However, if you think a divorce will make your life better and you can prove that your husband has not been faithful, consult a lawyer and go ahead with it.