Dear Queenie,
I have been married for more than 30 years and these days my wife spends all her time online or visiting her friends and relatives, and when she goes to bed she is so tired that she goes right to sleep. I can’t even remember when is the last time we had sex.
Queenie, could she be cheating on me with someone else?—Frustrated husband
Dear Husband,
If you have been married for more than 30 years your wife has reached the age when women go through menopause, and after menopause women often lose interest in sex – if fact, it often becomes actually painful for them – so I doubt that your wife is cheating on you. She probably is just trying to avoid what may be a painful experience for her.
Talk to your wife about this, and maybe also to her gynaecologist.
