Dear Queenie,
A long-time friend of mine has started using pot and it has changed her a lot. Although her marriage is still good and she is still as good at her job and she still takes good care of her pets, she just isn’t as smart as she used to be.
Queenie, should I say something to her about it?—Worried friend
Dear Friend,
People do change as they grow older, and in your friend’s case marijuana may have nothing to do with it. You could mention the change to her and see how she reacts. You could also mention it to her husband in case the change might be due to medical issues and she might need to see her doctor.