Dear Queenie,
Before we got married my husband was a wonderful lover, but since the wedding he never touches me.
I’m not as slender as I used to be, but I’m not terribly fat and I’ve been this way since before we got married, so that’s not the reason, and anyway, I’m trying to lose some weight.
Queenie, what more can I do?—Frustrated wife
Dear Wife,
Is it possible that your husband is having erectile problems that he is ashamed to admit? Perhaps a chat with his doctor would help him – and help you understand.
It is also possible that your husband’s behaviour while he was courting you was just that – “courting” – and now that he has “sealed the deal” he no longer feels any need to keep you romantically interested.
