Dear Queenie,
I’m in my 50s, divorced for half my life, and haven’t gone out on a date for several years. It’s not that I haven’t had a chance, because my friends and family keep trying to fix me up, but I won’t waste my time on someone I don’t find physically attractive.
They think this shouldn’t matter, but I can wait for the right person to come along even if it never happens.
Queenie, how can I get them to stop bugging me about it?—Had enough
Dear Had enough,
Just keep on saying, “Thanks, but no, thank you.” However, bear in mind that you may be missing out on a spectacular relationship(s) for a purely superficial reason.