Dear Queenie,
I’ve been married for more than 10 years. At first everything was great, but then the kids came along and my husband changed. One minute he will be shouting at me and telling me he hates me and the next he is all lovey-dovey and wants sex. He thinks he is always right, even when I know he isn’t, but he just says I am too stupid to know better.
I tried to get him to go for counselling with me, but he refused. He said he didn’t need it because the problem was all my fault.
Queenie, what more can I do?—He’s driving me crazy
Dear Crazy,
If your husband refuses to get professional counselling, there is no reason you cannot get counselling for yourself, and you need it to help you cope with this abusive man.
Ask Safe Haven (office 9277, 24-hour hotline number 9333 or 721- 523-6400, e-mail This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. and Facebook: SafeHavenSt.Maarten) for help.
