Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and he has asked me to marry him. He has almost everything I want in a man, but I still find other men attractive and I keep worrying about what if I meet someone even more attractive than him after we get married.
Queenie, how can I be sure that I will be happier with him than with anyone else I might meet someday?—Hesitating
Dear Hesitating,
There are never any guarantees regarding what might happen – or whom you might meet – in the future. Marriage means making a commitment to the person you are marrying that if that should happen you will honour your marriage vows and resist any temptation that comes up.
That is part of what being an adult is all about.
