Dear Queenie,
My husband says he loves me and doesn’t love any other woman, but he has cheated on me a couple of times that I know of and probably more than that.
He doesn’t deny it, he claims that a man needs lots of sex with different women to be really satisfied.
Queenie, is that true? And what should I do?—His wife
Dear Wife,
First, if you stay with this man, get tested regularly for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
Second, see a marriage counsellor to help you decide whether you are willing to stay in this non-monogamous marriage, and to figure out how to cope with whatever you decide.