Dear Queenie,
My wife passed away several years ago and now I have met a woman who is also widowed for some time and we have fallen in love and are thinking about getting married. However, while I have a moderate income, her husband was quite wealthy and left her very well-off, and I can’t afford to take care of her the way he did.
Queenie, do you think I have a chance of making marriage to her work?—In love, but worried
Dear In love,
This is something you should discuss with your lady friend and work out financial matters before you before you get married. It would be a good idea for the two of you to consult a professional financial advisor.
However, you both should be concentrating on all the things that make the two of you compatible and that made you fall in love.