Dear Queenie,
I’m in my 40s, divorced, with teenage children. I’ve been dating a man a little older than me, also divorced with teenage children. Sometimes we disagree and even argue about unimportant things and he gets over these arguments quickly, but I don’t and I am starting to wonder if I should keep seeing him.
Queenie, what do you advise?—Lonely divorcee
Dear Divorcee,
Spending time with someone who does not make you feel happy, just to avoid feeling lonely, is not a solution to your problem. If you are not happy spending time with this man, no, you should not keep seeing him.