Dear Queenie,
I have grownup married children and people are always asking me about my grandchildren and when I tell them I don’t have any they ask why not.
Queenie, how do I answer such questions?—Not a grandmother (yet, I hope!)
Dear Not a grandmother,
You do not have to answer such nosey questions. Just change the subject. Or, you can smile and tell the person to ask your children that question and offer them your child(ren)’s phone number(s), and then change the subject. I doubt that person will ask you again.