Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend has asked me to marry him and I would like to say “yes” but I’m afraid I will change my mind after we have been married for a while.
Queenie, how can I be sure I am doing the right thing?—Not ready yet
Dear Not ready,
Do not marry this man – or any man – unless and until you are certain it is what you want to do.
Professional counselling could help you learn what that is, and how to deal with your doubts.