Dear Queenie,
For about a year I have been corresponding with a friend I used to know in high school. During that year she and her boyfriend got married.
I can understand why she didn’t invite me to the wedding, but she never even mentioned it to me. I found out from seeing her wedding photos on Facebook.
Queenie, I can understand why I wasn’t invited to the wedding, but why not say anything about it?—Perplexed
Dear Perplexed,
Maybe she thought you already knew. Maybe she was embarrassed that she could not invite you to the wedding. Why not ask her how she likes married life and see how she reacts?