Dear Queenie,
My parents are divorced and I live with my mother. I never knew the reason for their divorce. I love my aunt, my father’s sister, but my mother doesn’t like her at all and won’t even speak to her.
Queenie, how do I manage all this?—Pulled 2 ways
Dear Pulled 2 ways,
It is okay for you to love both people, but it is not okay for either of them to try to get you to take sides against the other, and if either one of them does this they are totally wrong. However, if it comes to that, your loyalty should be with your mother, as you are in her custody.