Dear Queenie,
A good friend of mine works at the same place as my husband, but one time at a party I heard her tell him she would like to be with him if he wasn’t married. After that I couldn’t stand to be friends with her and when she asked me what had happened I told her what I heard and she claimed it was just that she had had too much to drink and she would never actually do anything like that, but I just can’t forget it,
My husband says he has no interest in her and I believe him, but I still don’t like her anymore.
Queenie, should I just get over it, or do I have a right to dump her as a friend?—Sceptical
Dear Sceptical,
As long as you can trust your husband, get over being angry. But you have every right to distance yourself from this so-called friend.
