Dear Queenie,
I’m a woman in my 30s and I have dated a lot of men. I always meet them in public for the first few dates and if I like them enough I give them my e-mail address and that’s when things starts to go bad.
Several of them have sent me sexy or even nude pictures of themselves. When that happens I delete the pictures and stop seeing them and block them from my e-mail, but I can’t help wondering why they think it is okay to do it.
Queenie, what do you think?—Seen too much
Dear Seen too much,
I think you should ask yourself what you may be doing or saying to give these “flashers” the idea that you would be pleased to receive such pictures – or at least would not object to it.