Dear Queenie,
I’ve been dating a man for a couple of months and I just found out he’s married and has two children with his wife and another one outside the marriage.
Queenie, why do men cheat? Is it possible for him to be in love with two different women?—The byside
Dear Byside,
Only two women? What about the mother of that “outside” child? That makes three women, by my count, and there is no telling how many more that you do not know about, plus how many other “outside” children he has that you do not know about.
There is no good future for you with this man. Even if he left his wife for you, which is not likely, you can be sure he would cheat on you just as he cheated on her. Men who cheat are not so much in love with the women involved as they are in love with themselves.