Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend and I have been living together for a couple of years and all this time he has been cheating on me with more than one other women. No matter how much I cry and tell him how much it hurts me he still does it. He even spends money that we need to pay the bills on them.
Queenie, how can I believe he loves me when he hurts me so much?—Unhappy girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
Your boyfriend does not love you. He probably likes you a lot, but he also likes all these other women too and he is not going to change just because it makes you cry.
It is time you thought about doing what is best for you – breaking up with this cheater and finding someone who can, and will, love you exclusively.