Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend and I have been going together for several years and he comes to my home all the time and sometimes he stays overnight, but he never takes me to his house.
Queenie, his children live with him so I can understand his not having me stay overnight, but not even having me visit him there? What do you think?—Unhappy girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
I think your boyfriend is so worried about vexing his children that he lets them set the rules, and this is not likely to change. You will have to decide whether you are willing to put up with this kind of treatment, and then decide what, if anything, to do about it.
