Dear Queenie,
A few months after we bought a new home my husband lost his job and we couldn’t keep up the payments. He was angry at me all the time and started seeing other women and when I found out he lied to me about it.
I love him, but I don’t trust him anymore.
Queenie, should I leave him?—Unhappy wife
Dear Wife,
A good marriage must be based on mutual trust and concern for each other. Your husband cheats and lies and takes out his unhappiness by getting angry at you.
If you can persuade him to go with you for professional marriage counselling, there might be a chance to save your marriage, but if he will not go with you, go by yourself for help in deciding how and when to end it.