Dear Queenie,
My husband and I do a lot of things with our families, but my husband has a habit of making plans for these get-togethers without talking to me about it.
Queenie, am I wrong to want him to talk to me about it before he makes such plans?—Vexed wife
Dear Wife,
Your husband is not being thoughtful of your feelings. He also ignores the possibility that you may have some ideas about whatever get-together he is planning. He should discuss such matters with you before he makes plans with anyone else.
