Dear Queenie,
If you are a guest at a wedding, not part of the wedding party, is it okay to wear a silver-colored dress, or is silver too much like white?—Wedding guest Etty Ket
Dear Etty Ket,
The rule of etiquette is that a guest should not wear anything that might take attention away from the bride. If your dress is silver lame or covered in silver sequins, it would be better to wear something that is not so noticeable.