Dear Queenie,
My girlfriend has a problem with the fact that I have dated women from different racial and ethnic groups. She says it’s disgusting.
Queenie, everything else about our relationship is just great. Can we get past this and make things work out between us?—Worried boyfriend
Dear Boyfriend,
A person who was raised with that kind of attitude will probably find it very difficult, if not impossible, to change. If she is willing to try, give her a chance and hope for the best, but if she is not even willing to try, let her go and forget about her.