Dear Queenie,
My sister and her boyfriend just got engaged and are planning their wedding. I would be more happy about this if I didn’t know that he cheated on her about a year ago and even though she knew about it she stuck with him, and now we find out that he is still keeping in touch with the girl he cheated with, but my sister still wants to marry him and tells me to mind my own business.
I think she is making a mistake and he will go on cheating on her.
Queenie, what should I say to her, or should I just keep quiet and pretend nothing wrong is going on?—Worried sister
Dear Sister,
Just keep quiet and accept your sister’s decision, but be prepared to stand by her and give her your support if – when – she needs it.