Dear Queenie,
My mother was always there to help anyone in her family when they got sick, but now she has health problems and all the others do is complain that she is not there for them anymore. None of them have offered to help her or even come to visit her while she is sick.
Queenie, is this normal? What do you think?—Angry daughter
Dear Daughter,
I think your relatives do not know what to say or do when the “family caregiver” is the one who needs help and support.
Try to help your mother as best you can, and try to forgive the others for not being there for her when she needs them.
