Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend always leaves big tips for the waiter (or waitress) when we go out to eat – I mean, like $10 for just a couple of cups of coffee, and then he brags about how generous he is. Sometimes it gets kind of annoying.
Queenie, should I say anything about it?—Big spender’s girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
If your boyfriend is well-to-do and can afford this generosity, do not say anything. Just hope he will be as generous to you on occasions like your birthday and Christmas and then thank him profusely.
However, you might ask him if he has ever consulted a professional financial consultant to help him plan for the future.