Dear Queenie,
I’m in love with and living with a man who is married, but separated from his wife who is living with another man.
My man’s wife calls me and talks to me like I was her best friend whenever she has a problem with the man she is living with.
Queenie, am I wasting my time with this man? What should I do?—Confused
Dear Confused,
“Your man” is not really your man as long as he is married to someone else, even if they are not living together. You need to talk this over with him and find out what his long-term plans are in regard to you and to the woman who is still legally his wife. Then you will have a better idea of what you can do.
Professional counselling might help all of you in resolving your respective situations.
