Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend and I have been dating for several months now. Sometimes he hugs me and we hold hands while we are watching TV, but up to now he has never kissed me.
Queenie, how do I find out if he wants to kiss me and how do I let him know it’s okay?—Confused girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
The next time you are holding hands or saying “Goodbye” feel free to ask him if he wants to kiss you – or to kiss him. That should settle the matter one way or the other.