Dear Queenie,
I was watching a TV show with my boyfriend but he said he didn’t like it and wanted to do something else. I asked him why he didn’t like it but he just wouldn’t talk about it.
We have been together for a couple of years and this is not the first time he has refused to explain something to me when I asked about it.
Queenie, why does he do this?—Confused Girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
There might have been something in the TV show that reminded your boyfriend of something in his past that he would prefer to forget, or he may just have been bored by it and did not care that you were enjoying it.
Your boyfriend seems to be not very good at talking about how he feels about things, and he is not likely to change just because you want him to.
