Dear Queenie,
I have been married for many years and recently my doctor told me I have a minor STD that I could only have gotten by having sex with a person who had it, so if I have been faithful to my husband then he must have cheated on me. The doctor also said I could have had the infection for a long time without having any symptoms.
Queenie, my husband says he has never cheated on me. How can I believe him?—Confused Wife
Dear Wife,
Were you and/or your husband sexually active before you got married? Is it possible that you have had this infection for all the time since then?
Your husband also should see his doctor and get tested for this infection, because if you have it probably he also has it, and you do not want to continue to pass it back and forth to each other, no matter who got it first and gave it to the other.
