Dear Queenie,
My sister is dating a man who tells her she has gained weight and makes her feel guilty about the kind of food she eats and how much money she spends and what she spends it on. He even gets mad if we go out to a bar and have a few drinks. He claims he trusts her but he doesn’t trust who she may meet up with when she has been drinking.
Queenie, she says she loves him and wants to marry him. How can I convince her that this guy is just a jerk who wants to control her?—Worried sister
Dear Sister,
You cannot convince your sister, who is in love with him, that this man is a jerk. She will have to figure that out for herself.
The one good thing I see about him is that he worries about what might happen to her when she has been drinking, especially if she drinks enough to get a little – or more than a little – tipsy.
