Dear Queenie,
My sister is getting married and I am supposed to be her matron of honour, but it turns out that I am pregnant and her wedding will be about 3 months before I am due to have the baby.
Now she is mad because she thinks I will be getting more attention than her because I will be pregnant and it will ruin the wedding for her.
Queenie, what can I say to calm her down?—Expecting
Dear Expecting,
Tell your sister there is nothing you can do about being pregnant, but you will step down as matron of honour and just be a guest at her wedding if that will make her feel better. What more can you do? Does she want you to stay away altogether?