Dear Queenie,
When I’m getting ready to go to bed and I mention to my wife that I would like to have sex with her, she says she’ll be there in a few minutes, but then she gets busy doing something or falls asleep watching TV and it’s hours before she comes to bed. She will promise to make up for it the next night, but then it’s the same thing all over again.
Queenie, should I start looking elsewhere?—Frustrated husband
Dear Husband,
I will never advise anyone to cheat on their spouse.
In your case, I advise that you start working on your approach to your wife. “Come on, honey, let’s have sex” is not a good way to get your wife “turned on”. Try working on your romantic technique. You could even ask your wife outright what she needs you to do to get her interested in having sex.
