Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend is always losing things like his keys or his wallet or his cell phone. I have suggested that he always keep them in the same place when not using them, but either he doesn’t do it or if he does, it doesn’t work.
Queenie, I’m so tired of searching for his things. Is there anything more I can do?—Fed-up girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
Your boyfriend does not do this on purpose and probably is just as fed up as you are. Your boyfriend needs to learn to slow down and think about what he is doing when he puts these things down. Professional counselling might help him learn to organise his thinking a bit better.