Dear Queenie,
My fiancé and I are moving in together and he told me he has a lot of pictures and letters from old girlfriends that he doesn’t want to just throw away. I used to have that kind of stuff too, but I have thrown it all away.
Queenie, will it be okay if he packs it all up in a box and puts it away in the back of a closet?—Jealous fiancée
Dear Fiancée,
Some people are sentimental, some are not. Making an issue of this will just make you look small-minded. Let him pack up all that stuff, give him a pretty bow to tie up the box, and put it away – out of sight, out of mind (I hope!).