Dear Queenie,
When my cat got sick it spent a lot of time at the vet and I had a big bill to pay. A friend of mine was surprised when she heard how much and said I shouldn’t waste so much money on a cat. I was shocked at her hardheartedness and I am wondering if I should stay friends with her.
Queenie, should I forgive her?—Love my cat
Dear Cat-lover,
You are not expected to agree with everything your friends think and do.
If you think this means your friend is really a mean, nasty person you do not have to stay friends with her. But if it is simply a disagreement about how much to spend (or how much one can afford to spend) on a pet’s welfare, try to forgive her.