Dear Queenie,
I dated a married man for a while until I broke up with him when I realised that he was lying to me about wanting to leave his wife to be with me.
Queenie, should I tell his wife he was cheating on her?—Married man’s ex-girlfriend
Dear Ex-girlfriend,
You are not exactly innocent in this matter. You knew he was married and you still went out with him. If you insist on telling his wife about all this, at least do not be so cowardly as to do so anonymously. But are you really so sure she does not already know?