Dear Queenie,
I do not like my husband’s brother and he does not like me either. Now he is going to get married to a woman who also doesn’t like me and I don’t like, and we have been invited to the wedding.
Queenie, my husband wants me to go to the wedding with him. Do I really have to?—Reluctant wedding guest
Dear Guest,
If it means that much to your husband, go with him and be polite to the happy couple for his sake. You probably will not see much of them at the wedding, and I doubt you will have to see much of them after that either, except at family get-togethers.