Dear Queenie,
Do you think it is OK for a father to ask his grown-up son if he is having sex with his girlfriend? I say it’s none of our business, but he says he just wants to advise them to be careful that she doesn’t get pregnant.
Queenie, what do you say?—MYOB mom
Dear Mom,
Would you still think it was none of your business if the girlfriend got pregnant?
Advise your husband to be as tactful as possible when he talks to your son about this. Perhaps he could ask your son what he knows about birth control and give him some fatherly advice on the subject without asking any questions about his sexual activity (if any) with his girlfriend.
