Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend and I have been thinking about getting married, but recently I found out that he told some of his friends that he would pay for me to get a boob job.
I like the way I look and I don’t think I need a boob job and I certainly don’t want one.
Queenie, what do you think this says about him?—Offended girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
I think it says your boyfriend assumes he can make you do whatever he wants. I do not blame you for being offended that he would say something like that to someone else without ever having discussed the subject with you to find out how you feel about it.
Perhaps this will make you think again about marrying him?
