Dear Queenie,
My husband doesn’t think about anything else than his business and I do everything to take care of the house and our children. When he does have a few minutes to spare all he wants is to have sex with me no matter what I am in the middle of doing.
I would appreciate it if he could think about my feelings sometimes – ask me to go out somewhere or even just give me a hug or a backrub without expecting it to lead directly into the bed.
Queenie, am I asking for too much?—Not just a sexpot
Dear Not just a sexpot,
Of course you are not asking for too much, but the person you should be asking it for is your husband.
If you cannot make him understand, perhaps a professional marriage counsellor could do so. If you cannot persuade your husband to go with you, go by yourself to get help in figuring out how to explain all this to him, and in deciding just what you want to do if your situation does not improve.
