Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend has a job that keeps him so busy he doesn’t have much time to spend with me. He wants for us to get married and says that way he’ll have more time to spend with me, but he also says if he doesn’t work so much, he won’t get paid as much.
Queenie, what do you advise?—Undecided
Dear Undecided,
I advise you not to make any hasty decisions.
Do not agree to marry this man until you are absolutely sure about how he feels
about you and whether you can trust what he says and the promises he makes – and how you feel about him and just what place you will have in his life in relation to his family, his work, and any other interests he may have.